Setting Long-Term Goals and Fostering Marriage Mindedness

Objective: Learn how to define long-term goals and discuss marriage or commitment aspirations with your partner.

Steps to Set Long-Term Goals:

1. Reflect on Your Personal Goals:
   1. Think about what you want in life, such as career aspirations, lifestyle preferences, and personal growth.
   1. Write these down to gain clarity before discussing them with your partner.
2. Discuss Goals with Your Partner:
   1. Share your goals openly and invite your partner to do the same.
   1. Ask questions to uncover your partner’s long-term desires:
   1. 1. “Where do you see yourself in 5 or 10 years?”
      1. “What does a successful relationship or marriage look like to you?”
3. Define Relationship Milestones:
   1. Identify key milestones, such as:
      1. Moving in together
      1. Starting a family
      1. Financial planning (e.g., saving for a home or retirement)
4. Create a Joint Vision:
   1. Combine your individual goals into a shared vision for the future.

Key Takeaway: Setting long-term goals creates a roadmap for your relationship, ensuring both partners are aligned in their aspirations.