Bonus Content – Your Mental Powers

Use your mental powers; you have amazing mental powers that you can use to attract the ideal man into your life.  Your mind is very powerful, and it can bring you anything that you really want as long as you want it long enough and badly enough.  Your desires are the only real limit on what you can accomplish in life.  

The Law Of Correspondence says that your outer world reflects your inner world.  This law says that your outer world eventually corresponds to what you usually think about.  You can unlock your mental powers to achieve your goals and bring you the man you want in four ways.  

The first of these is for you to verbalize. This means you describe what you want in words, preferably in writing, and then talk to yourself and think positively all the time. Speak positively to others and continually say to yourself; I can do it, I can do it and tell others you can do it, you can do it as well.

The second way you can activate the powers of your mind, as I mentioned earlier, is to idealize regularly and continually.  Imagine your perfect life, mate, and situation, and then ask yourself how.  

How could you create the ideal situation that allows you to find the man of your dreams and live that dream life in every way? Like 80% of success in life is contained in the word clarity, people who accomplish wonderful things with their lives are very clear about what they want.  On the other hand, people who are unsuccessful tend to be very fuzzy about their goals and ideals.  So the clearer you are about the ideal man you want, the more likely it is that you will find him, and he will find you.   

The third way to activate your mental powers is for you to visualize.  Continue to create a clear mental picture of yourself as calm, confident, attractive, happy, and effective in everything you do. See yourself in your mind’s eye as popular, likable, influential, and desirable.  Remember, the person you see is the person you will be!

The fourth way for you to activate your mental powers is for you to emotionalize.  This requires that you get the feeling that you would have if you were already in the perfect relationship. Imagine if you feel yourself happy, satisfied, content, secure, confident, and truly loved.

 There is something wonderful that happens to you, and your life verbalizes, visualizes, and emotionalizes. You begin to think and feel differently about yourself and others and act differently; everything in your life begins to improve on the outside as you improve on the inside.

The final key to using your mental powers is for you to actualize.  Release your mental pictures and images completely, and let go. Let your dreams and goals come into your life at exactly the right time for you, as they surely will.  Throughout the day, keep your thoughts, words, and feelings on what you want and not think about what you don’t want. The universe will align and give you what you think about the most, so use the power of your mind to think positively about your goals and how to achieve them. All around you, in every field and every part of life, there are women who have started with very few advantages, but as the result of idealizing, verbalizing, visualizing, and emotionalizing, they have actualized their ideal life.


Practical Exercises:

  • Spend 15 minutes journaling about what femininity means to you. Reflect on how you can incorporate it into your life.
  • Practice engaging in one conversation today where you focus on listening without interrupting.

Final Action Steps:

  • In your next interaction, focus on:
  • Listening attentively without interrupting.
  • Being fully present and engaged.

Write down one instance where you allowed yourself to be open and receptive today.