How to Build and Earn Trust in Dating

Objective: Learn strategies to build and earn trust as you deepen your relationship.


Strategies to Build Trust:

  1. Be Consistent:
    1. Follow through on your promises, no matter how small. Consistency builds reliability and confidence in your actions.
  2. Communicate Openly and Honestly:
    1. Avoid hiding your intentions or feelings. Being upfront shows authenticity and respect for the relationship.
  3. Respect Boundaries:
    1. Trust grows when both partners feel their boundaries are acknowledged and respected.
  4. Show Empathy and Understanding:
    1. Be attentive to your partner’s feelings and experiences. Empathy fosters emotional intimacy.
  5. Take It Slow:
    1. Trust is earned over time. Rushing can lead to unmet expectations and doubts.
  6. Avoid Oversharing:
    1. Sharing personal details is important, but revealing too much too soon can overwhelm or push someone away. Avoid discussing past relationships until the bond has matured.


What to Avoid:

  • Being Defensive: Responding to feedback with defensiveness can erode trust.
  • Breaking Promises: Even small broken promises can create doubt.
  • Dishonesty: Once trust is broken, it can be challenging to rebuild.