Talking and Listening with Purpose

Objective: Understand how to communicate effectively by focusing on both speaking and active listening.

Key Principles of Effective Communication on Dates:

  1. Active Listening:
    1. Give your full attention to your date.
    1. Maintain eye contact, nod, and use verbal cues like “I see” or “That’s interesting” to show you’re engaged.
    1. Avoid interrupting; let your date speak without jumping in immediately.
  2. Speaking with Intention:
    1. When you speak, be clear, thoughtful, and mindful of your tone.
    1. Share personal experiences or thoughts without dominating the conversation.
    1. Keep your responses relevant and related to what your date just shared, showing that you value their input.
  3. Be Present:
    1. Stay in the moment—don’t think too far ahead or dwell on past conversations.
    1. Focus on the conversation and avoid distractions like checking your phone or looking around the room.